Wednesday, February 27, 2008

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Teens Love StoryFollow Your Heart



Billy loved Katie with all his heart. But he never told a Single soul. Katie secretly loved him too. But she thought she would never have a chance with him. Billy asked his friends what they think of her and his friends thought she was gay. They didn't like her at all. So Billy just went along with them. They all made fun of her and made her feel really bad. Katie was so upset.
One day they followed her home from school making fun of her the whole way home. Once she got inside her house she dropped to the floor cringe. She had a crush on Billy since 3rd grade. She didn't know what to do. When Billy got home he felt real bad about what he had done. So he decided to go to Katie's house to tell her he was sorry and that he really loves her.
When he got there he knocked on the door no one answered.
The door was open so he walked in. He walked into the living room and found Katie lying dead on the floor. She had slit her wrists. Billy was so up set . He knew it was his fault she killed her self. And now he could never tell her how he really felt.
The lesson of this story is: Don't wait to until the last minute to tell someone how you really feel. Because it just might be too late. And don't always go by what your friends say, follow your heart.

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Maranaos protest balikatan

by Samira Gutoc 09204345010
A contingent of almost a hundred police, special operations group (SOG) and Traffic Management Group manned the second of a series of major rallies which started the weekend in Marawi City protesting the joint exercises of American and Filipino soldiers dubbed Balikatan .
Elderly, young students, women in black , religious groups filled the public plaza at Banggolo today to listen to speeches opposing the exercises.
Organized by local civil society groups led by a newly-created Ranao Crescent Against Balikatan Exercises, the rally was a rare appearance of representatives from the Provincial Government and the City Government, whose governor and mayor belong to opposing parties, with their followers attending the rally in the public plaza this morning.
Earlier, the City Government led by Mayor Fahad Salic passed a resolution urging PResident Gloria Macapagal Arroyo from “refraining” to implement the Balikatan exercises. The Provincial Government led by Governor Mohammad Khalid Mamintal Adiong said, the province would oppose the exercises if this was the “will of the people.”
No consultations were held on the coming February 18 exercises catching the Maranao public off-guard.
Red and white streamers with messages, written , “No To Balikatan Exercises, American Troops Out” were placed in strategic positions around the city. Another streamer said, “US government exploits our natural resources, to hell with Bush.” A big tarpauline saying “No To Balikatan Exercises in the Two Lanao Areas” was sponsored by the Provincial Government.
Using religious slogans, speakers in the rally said non-Muslims like Americans are out to “destroy Islam.” “We know the democracy agenda of the United States is that utlized in other countries like Iraq, ” said one rallyist.
A major religious leader Aleem Abu Saranggani , head of the influential Markazz Shabbab organization, said the exercises would destroy the peace in the province. “We are discriminated. When Americans commit crimes they cannot be punished here but would be punished in their own country.”
“Whatever support, aid that the US would give, give it to our government. We don’t need troops here,” Saranggani said.
February 5th, 2008

pro-life

This article is about the social movement. For other uses, see Pro-life (disambiguation).

Pro-life protesters make a silent demonstration in front of the United States Supreme Court in Washington, D.C.
Abortion debatePart of the abortion series
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Pro-life is a term representing a variety of perspectives and activist movements in bioethics. It can be used to indicate opposition to practices such as euthanasia, human cloning, research involving human embryonic stem cells, and the death penalty, but most commonly (especially in the media and popular discourse) to abortion, and support for fetal rights. The term describes the political and ethical view which maintains that fetuses and embryos are human beings, and therefore have a right to life.
On the issue of abortion, attempts by pro-life campaigners to pass laws against abortion are opposed by pro-choice campaigners who argue that the central issue is a completely different set of rights. The pro-choice view does not consider a fetus to have full legal rights, so the issue is instead considered to be the human rights of the pregnant woman to choose to terminate her pregnancy or carry it to term. The pro-choice view believes that a woman should have complete control over her fertility and pregnancy and that this entails the guarantee of reproductive rights.

anti abortion article

Anti abortion articles share information that is relevant so that a pregnant woman can be informed about the developing child within the womb. There are important considerations to take into account that can help a woman to become informed about abortion. Some of these include information about when the heartbeat begins, when the brain begins to function, and when unconscious thoughts begin. Realizing that God gives life is an important anti abortion argument and with that in mind shouldn't God be the one to decide to extinguish that life? Women who are contemplating abortion need to understand that she may be causing herself psychological harm by taking the life of her own child. In addition, there are physical risks involved; such as scarring and damage to female organs. For those who are unable to care for their child, there are many childless couples who would love the opportunity to raise a child as their very own. Some people believe that terminating a child's life before birth is alright because the child has not reached consciousness; that consciousness is a state that occurs after birth. Research publicized through anti abortion articles states that a child starts to dream in the womb once the brain is fully developed around forty days after conception. Logic dictates that in order for a child to experience unconscious thoughts it makes sense that he or she also experiences conscious thoughts. This information reminds humans that they really do not know for sure when a child becomes aware. Even if scientists could determine when consciousness begins, wouldn't it still be wrong to extinguish a life? God created human beings in His image; and told them to be "fruitful and multiply" (Genesis 1:27-28). Another argument used by pro abortionists is that just because a fetus is alive does not mean that he or she is a person. Some do not believe that the fetus becomes a person until months after being born. The anti abortion argument seeks to answer the question, If a person does not know for sure when a fetus becomes a person, how can someone take the chance that he or she is not? God's word condemns those who shed innocent blood; an unborn child can most definitely fall under the definition of "innocent blood" (Psalms 106:37-40). The Bible tells us that God loves His children and knows the smallest details about each person, "But the very hairs of your head are all numbered" (Matthew 10:30).The heartbeat of the unborn child begins 21 days after conception and a child born as early as 20 weeks after conception has a good chance of survival. For those pro abortionists who do not believe that a child is a person until he or she is several months old, what about the premature babies? Anyone who has held a little baby that weighs less than 2 pounds knows that the child is indeed a little person: one who is struggling to live. Anti abortion articles recognize that the fight between good and evil can clearly be seen in this controversial issue. Anytime people are wholeheartedly looking for justification for anything that they do there should be a big question mark as to why they feel that their actions need validation. Such is what is happening with those who believe that abortion should be legal. The real question here is why so many want to take life away from a little human being who brings so much joy and meaning to life. There are physical and psychological problems that can afflict women who have had abortions. Some of the more important physical problems associated with the procedure are bleeding, infections, pain, difficult menses, perforated uterus, ectopic pregnancies, miscarriages, and becoming sterile. Some of the more important psychological problems that can be a result of the procedure are guilt, mourning, regret, sense of loss, suicide, anger, self-destructive behavior, the inability to forgive self, nightmares, and the onset of multiple types of psychological disorders. Psychological disorders that may result include but are not limited to eating disorders, anxiety, depression, and obsessive compulsive disorder. The most profound anti abortion argument is based upon the consequences of an immoral action and how this affects the woman who undergoes the procedure. The spiritual effects on those who have the procedure is one that is worthy of contemplation. From a Biblical perspective, taking a life is murder, is one of the commandments of God, and is a sin, which means separation from God. Anti abortion articles found on the Internet talk about the love of God and forgiveness through His Son, Jesus Christ. When a person sins, he or she must confess the sin and ask God for forgiveness. Some studies have revealed that many women have felt so much guilt and remorse after having the procedure that they tried to commit suicide. God offers a way back into fellowship and right standing with Him, through the shed blood of Christ when He died on the cross. "For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord" (Romans 6:23).There are many arguments and counter arguments between pro life and pro choice but the nature of people is prone to bias so that any person can rationalize any action. In addition, finding people who believe the same thing is not difficult either so just because others have the same opinion does not mean something is right. The anti abortion argument recognizes that embryos are human beings and should have the right to live. There are some people who survived even after their mothers attempted to abort them. For anyone who has any questions about abortion he or she should read some of the personal testimonies of these individuals that can be found on the Internet by doing a search on anti abortion articles.

Abortion

The abortion debate refers to discussion and controversy surrounding the moral and legal status of abortion. The two main groups involved in the abortion debate are the pro-choice movement, which generally supports access to abortion and regards it as morally permissible, and the pro-life movement, which generally opposes access to abortion and regards it as morally wrong. Each movement has, with varying results, sought to influence public opinion and to attain legal support for its position. In Canada, for example, abortion is available on demand,[1] while in Nicaragua abortions are always illegal. In the USA, abortion is generally legal but subject to restrictions in some jurisdictions and circumstances. In some cases, the abortion debate has led to the use of violence.


Many of the terms used in the debate are seen as political framing: terms used to validate one's own stance while invalidating the opposition's. For example, the labels "pro-choice" and "pro-life" imply endorsement of widely held values such as liberty and freedom, while suggesting that the opposition must be "anti-choice" or "anti-life" (alternatively "pro-coercion" or "pro-death"). Such terms gloss over the underlying issue of which choice or life is being considered and whose choice or what kind of life is deemed most important.
Appeals are often made in the abortion debate to the alleged "rights" of the fetus, pregnant woman or other parties. Such appeals can generate confusion if the type of rights is not specified (whether civil, natural, or otherwise), or if it is simply assumed that the right appealed to takes precedence over all other competing rights (an example of begging the question).
The appropriate terms with which to designate the human organism prior to birth are also debated. The terms "embryo" and "fetus" are seen by pro-life advocates as dehumanizing; the terms "baby" and "unborn child" are seen by pro-choice advocates as emotionalized. Likewise, there is debate between use of the terms "woman" and "mother".


Church and state

The separation of church and state is an oft-debated topic in connection with abortion. Many churches have official positions on abortion, and there is a correlation between these official positions and the personal positions of adherents. Religious influences are closely tied to ethical opposition to abortion.[13] Some argue that efforts to codify official church positions (particularly pro-life positions) are an illegal or unjust breach of separation, either because those positions are innately religious or on the basis that separation of church and state should include separation of religion from politics.[14] Some argue that restrictions on abortion are not a breach of separation, since the pro-life position can be defended by appeal to secular ethical arguments.[15] It has also been argued that churches have an important role to play in political life, since in some communities they are an important source of information, resources, and incentives to engage in the political process.[16]


Personhood
Some argue that abortion is morally wrong on the basis that a fetus is an innocent human being.[17] Others reject this position by drawing a distinction between human being and human person, arguing that while the fetus is innocent and biologically human, it is not a person with a right to life.[18] In support of this distinction, some propose a list of criteria as markers of personhood. For example, Mary Ann Warren suggests consciousness (at least the capacity to feel pain), reasoning, self motivation, the ability to communicate, and self-awareness.[19] According to Warren, a being need not exhibit all of these criteria to qualify as a person with a right to life, but if a being exhibits none of them (or perhaps only one), then it is certainly not a person. Warren concludes that as the fetus satisfies only one criterion, consciousness (and this only after it becomes susceptible to pain),[20] the fetus is not a person and abortion is therefore morally permissible. Other philosophers apply similar criteria, concluding that a fetus lacks a right to life because it lacks self-consciousness,[21] rationality,[22] and autonomy.[23] These lists diverge over precisely which features confer a right to life,[24] but tend to propose various developed psychological features not found in fetuses.
Critics of this position typically argue that the proposed criteria for personhood would disqualify two classes of born human beings — reversibly comatose patients, and human infants — from having a right to life, since they, like fetuses, are not self-conscious, do not communicate, and so on.[25] Defenders of the proposed criteria may respond that the reversibly comatose do satisfy the relevant criteria because they "retain all their unconscious mental states".[26] Warren concedes that infants are not "persons" by her proposed criteria,[27] and on that basis she and others concede that infanticide could be morally acceptable under some circumstances (for example if the infant is severely disabled[28] or in order to save the lives of several other infants[29]). Critics may see such concessions as an indication that the right to life cannot be adequately defined by reference to developed psychological features.
An alternate approach is to base personhood or the right to life on a being's natural or inherent capacities. On this approach, a being essentially has a right to life if it has a genetic propensity or natural capacity to develop the relevant psychological features; and, since human beings do have this natural capacity, they essentially have a right to life (beginning at conception or whenever they come into existence).[30] Critics of this position argue that mere genetic potential is not a plausible basis for respect (or for the right to life), and that basing a right to life on natural capacities would lead to the counterintuitive position that anencephalic infants, irreversibly comatose patients, and brain-dead patients kept alive on a medical ventilator, are all persons with a right to life.[31]

Deprivation
Some argue that abortion is morally wrong because it deprives the fetus of a valuable future.[32] On this account, killing an adult human being is wrong because it deprives the victim of a future like ours—a future containing highly valuable or desirable experiences, activities, projects, and enjoyments.[33] If a being has such a future, then (according to the argument) killing that being would seriously harm it and hence would be seriously wrong.[34] But since a fetus does have such a future, the "overwhelming majority" of deliberate abortions are placed in the "same moral category" as killing an innocent adult human being.[35] Not all abortions are unjustified according to this argument: abortion would be justified if the same justification could be applied to killing an adult human.
Criticism of this line of reasoning follows several threads. Some reject the argument on grounds relating to personal identity, holding that the fetus is not the same entity as the adult into which it will develop, and thus that the fetus does not have a "future like ours" in the required sense.[36] Others grant that the fetus has a future like ours, but argue that being deprived of this future is not a significant harm or a significant wrong to the fetus, because there are relatively few psychological connections (continuations of memory, belief, desire and the like) between the fetus as it is now and the adult into which it will develop.[37] Another criticism is that the argument creates inequalities in the wrongness of killing:[38] as the futures of some people (for example the young, bright and healthy) appear to be far more valuable or desirable than the futures of other people (for example the old, depressed and sick), the argument appears to entail that some killings are far more wrong than others, or that some people have a far stronger right to life than others—a conclusion that is taken to be counterintuitive or unacceptable. Finally, some argue that as gametes have a similar potential to the fetus, the argument would entail that contraception is as wrong as the killing of an adult human being—a conclusion that is similarly taken to be counterintuitive or unacceptable.

Why do some pregnant women choose adoption?

Some women are putting their baby's needs ahead of their own and do so out of love for the child.
Some women desire to give their child everything they are not able to provide at this time.
Some women want a stable, two-parent home for their child, and most adoptive families can provide this because they are secure financially and emotionally, and have been waiting to be parents.
Some women want their child to be able to go to college and have a wonderful education.
Some women want their child to have a large and supportive extended family for their child.
Some women realize their current situation is not the best for their child and do not want to struggle from day-to-day.
Some women already have children, and know that having another would hinder their ability to meet those children's needs as well as a new baby.
Some women do not have good, strong support from family or friends to help them with raising a baby, and cannot do it alone. To the contrary, some women have good, strong family support but do not want to rely on others to help raise the baby.
Some women don't want to try and raise a child with the birth father because he is not a good influence or because he is not supportive financially or emotionally, or both.
Some women recognize that the relationship, or lack thereof, they have with the birth father will make raising the baby too difficult.
Some women are scared and did not plan for this to happen in their life at this point. They want to find a way to bring the baby into the world and continue on with their goals such as education, employment, etc.
Some women are not ready to parent, but do not believe in abortion so adoption is a wonderful solution.

Adoption vs. Abortion vs. Parenting

For some women who are considering an alternative to parenting, this may be the first big decision they'll ever make. For others, making decisions independently is nothing new.
No matter how vast your decision-making experience, choosing your baby's best future is one of the biggest, most profound decisions you will ever make. Your emotional vulnerability will likely be at an all-time high, not only because of the mega-dose of hormones being pumped through your body, but obviously, you are now responsible for the future of another human's life.
No matter how complex or unique your own situation - everyone has a completely different pregnancy experience - when all is stripped away, there are three choices: to parent, to adopt or to abort.
There was a time when choosing an alternative to parenting was anything but positive. You could either end the baby's life through abortion or "give up" your baby for adoption to a couple you knew nothing about, only to never see your baby again.
Thankfully, the realm of adoption has undergone a dramatic revolution in the past 20 years and even more so in the last decade. In fact, even finding any similarities between the way adoptions were conducted in the past and today.
The good thing is, you have choices, and no matter your decision, you will be far from alone in it. Of the 6.2 million women who were pregnant in 2002, fewer than half had planned the pregnancy (Options magazine, 2003).
While it is a good thing you have choices, you have to find the strength and rationality within to come to the best decision for both you and your child. Family and friends are wonderful resources who care for and love you, but sometimes, that isn't the best perspective from which to make an objective, well thought-out decision. That's why speaking with an adoption professional can be especially beneficial at this time.
Each decision brings with it myriad considerations - financial impact, emotional outcomes, medical possibilities, day care necessities, degree of family support or emotional support, to name but a few.
For most women, it's downright dizzying. Adoption professionals are trained to serve as a third party, unbiased perspective which can help you process through all of these factors in a rational way. Speaking with an adoption professional is the best way to garner an unbiased opinion so that you can be truly empowered to arrive at the best conclusion possible for both you and your baby.